Make plans with yourself and stop positive I mean wishful thinking.

By now you must have been fed some "focus and believe and it will just come". This is really just religion without god and it bothers me. You will never get to where you are going without going somewhere. How can you pick up something that you won't touch? How this stuff really works... You want to make more money. You've always wanted to make more money, but now you can see it in your mind. You write $1,000 on a $10 that you wake up to every morning or keep in your wallet or whatever superstitious little thing you want to do. This is the part that actually matters... What do you actually feel when you think about money in general? Are you being truthful with yourself? Is that really honesty or are you convincing yourself? Whatever you are feeling is your starting point. If you are trying to increase your wealth you shouldn't feel that great when you are first engaging in this activity. Think about something you know you couldn't fail... like writing the alphabet from beginning to end or beating your little brother in a game of cards. Is that the same feeling you get when you think about making more money or is another feeling holding you back... Listen to this... its part of your inner voice. It is feedback you can't get from anyone else. If you want to accomplish what you want to accomplish have a conversation with yourself. Ask questions and listen to the answer. When you have worked out your own issues you can go on your adventure towards abundance actually prepared to receive. When you haven't worked out these issues in your mind and you go on this journey, it's like sailing with your arms tied behind your back. Go with your arms strengthened. This is not an opinion... it is self-evident truth. Are you really prepared? Does your personality, your feelings, and your ability to relate to other people really represent the type of person who is ready to create (not just receive) your desires? Again don't use your opinion to justify your answer. Use relative truth. Not sure what that is? Do your research... what does someone that has the things I want do to get them? What would I already be involved in if this were already true? What opportunities would I be utilizing? Why hasn't this happened already? The key word there is ALREADY. Your current solutions may be an answer but they are not the answer. The answer gets you where you want to go. Be willing to abandon a sinking ship before it takes you with it. Re-evaluate your plans before they go somewhere and allow yourself to recalibrate if you see a shortcut once in a while. Lastly, forget about the outcome. Life is all about process. Your goal will come and go but you are still here. Make your goals what you want to experience, not the experience. If you are doing it alone, only for yourself, or doing it without having fun... you are doing it wrong.